Losing an unborn child is a heavy pain for the mother and there's no other word that can describe that. Even if people tell you there are lots of mothers in the world who have lost their child, it still is gonna be hard! Although there would be more pains to compare yours with, still any person's pain is theirs and it's big for them. A friend once said each person's pain are as big as their heart! If that's true, I wish my heart was smaller than a pin whole! I'm coping with pain and the weight the gain which I need to lose and I'm surprised at life which brings me pain and then more pain, day after day... there would be some breaks in between but I know that it will come back again soon, maybe in another format but for sure it will come. it has been this way for long and I do not expect any change... it is life after all It is like giving birth to a child and only it will end with death!....!!!....